{"id":1548,"date":"2023-09-04T11:52:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-04T11:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/?p=1548"},"modified":"2023-08-01T12:08:48","modified_gmt":"2023-08-01T12:08:48","slug":"los-padres-como-modelo-a-seguir-para-resolver-problemas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/los-padres-como-modelo-a-seguir-para-resolver-problemas\/","title":{"rendered":"Los padres como modelo a seguir para resolver problemas"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Un tema que se pasa muy desapercibido en el d\u00eda a d\u00eda de las familias, y que quiz\u00e1s no se han llegado a plantear, es si sus <strong>hijos o hijas son capaces de resolver sus problemas de forma adecuada<\/strong>. Los problemas, al fin y al cabo, forman parte de la vida y todo el mundo se termina enfrentando a ellos, a veces de forma adecuada y otras veces no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probablemente, t\u00fa como padre o madre que est\u00e1s leyendo este art\u00edculo se te venga a la cabeza el pensamiento de que con la edad que tiene tu hijo o hija todav\u00eda no puede saber lo que es tener un problema de verdad (el t\u00edpico \u201c<em>si yo te contase mis problemas\u2026\u201d)<\/em>. Sumada a esta creencia, ante cualquier cosa que obstaculice o que le salga mal, ah\u00ed est\u00e1is vosotros con tres posibles formas de actuar:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>para decirles exactamente qu\u00e9 es lo que tienen que hacer, sin dar lugar a que ellos puedan buscar la forma m\u00e1s adaptativa para solucionar su problema.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Entrar en una espiral de preocupaci\u00f3n, generando una sobreprotecci\u00f3n excesiva y limitando sus experiencias.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Estar perdidos sin saber qu\u00e9 hacer ni c\u00f3mo actuar.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/girl-g3c4e63290_640.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" src=\"https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/girl-g3c4e63290_640.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/girl-g3c4e63290_640.jpg 640w, https:\/\/anhidacoruna.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/girl-g3c4e63290_640-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>En cualquiera de los casos, las tres formas son reacciones que <strong>impiden que vuestro hijo o hija aprenda a resolver problemas por su cuenta. <\/strong>Entendemos que darles vosotros la soluci\u00f3n es probablemente el camino m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido y eficaz, pero carecer\u00e1n de habilidades para resolver futuros problemas. \u00bfDe qu\u00e9 os servir\u00eda que en las operaciones matem\u00e1ticas os dieran el resultado en lugar de explicaros el proceso? Pues en este caso es igual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aprender a hablar sobre los problemas, a negociar cuando puede haber diferencia de opiniones en su grupo de amistades, a llegar a compromisos y, en definitiva, a solucionar problemas son las formas primarias para desarrollar esta habilidad.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En ocasiones, la respuesta al problema en forma de gritos, llantos, escaparse o actuar agresivamente viene originada por el desconocimiento de otras formas de reaccionar cuando las cosas no van como quieren, creando as\u00ed nuevas dificultades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As\u00ed pues, <strong>no se trata de ignorar a vuestro hijo o hija cuando tiene un problema, sino de guiarlo en el proceso y hacerlos participes en la b\u00fasqueda de posibles soluciones<\/strong>, ya que, aunque para vosotros sea una situaci\u00f3n sin importancia, para ellos es un gran problema que necesitan resolver. De esta forma, vuestro papel es ayudarles a evaluar las consecuencias (tanto positivas como negativas) de cada una de las posibilidades para que ellos piensen cual es la mejor. Siguiendo este modelo, con el tiempo, permitir\u00e1 que vuestro hijo o hija internalice este proceso de tal modo que lo acabar\u00e1 haciendo de forma aut\u00f3noma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana Dieguez<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Psic\u00f3loga<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un tema que se pasa muy desapercibido en el d\u00eda a d\u00eda de las familias, y que quiz\u00e1s no se han llegado a plantear, es si sus hijos o hijas son capaces de resolver sus problemas de forma adecuada. 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